We discussed in my previous article why infidelity, casual affairs, promiscuity is not wise but we will discuss more as to why it is a sin. No I am not judging anyone, everyone’s situation is different so each one to his own. I understand being non-judgemental leads to acceptence and acceptence reduces conflicts but if God asks me to write on something or post something, please allow.
By being loyal we protect our and our partner emotionally, spiritually and physically. Attraction, passion dies with time, what sustains is compatiblity and emotional attachement towards each other. Tell me, would you like to have a relationship that has no emotions, no values, no morals? Open marraige, new concept we have now- nonsense. No ethics, no morals, no conscience.
Here we go to the temples, here we pray, here we fast, there we cheat. That’s why they say prayers and faith without obedience bears no fruits. Obedience first, everything else follows. If you live life with a guilty conscience, will you be happy? No, right?
This life I am going to live my life to the fullest- ok sure but living life to the fullest does not mean we hurt the sentiments of our partner or disrespect their existence. We should learn to compromise, accodmodate and adjust wherever possible to make a relationship work.
If there are issues in marraige, relationship- practise celibacy- go to God. Pray, fast, take your time to heal, and with time God will show you the way even if it leads to separation or divorce or being single however, don’t cheat. Don’t look for temporary relationships. Most important reason – doing so, we spoil our own bloodline.
Every single person you sleep with- you are attaching their bloodline to your bloodline. You are giving them access to your spirit as well. All their good deeds, sinful acts, get auto attached to your bloodline and then it gets passed down to your children as generational curses. What is pitru dosh? It’s sins of the father, family members and ancestors that get passed down to your future generations. Why should our children suffer for our sins? Be careful what kind of people you allow into your family lineage.
Never enter “Devil’s territory”- ENVY, HATE, LIES, LUST and GREED. This is because God will not enter devil’s territory- the least he can do is guide you, warn you, set guidelines but if you do not practise OBEDIENCE – all he can do is ask you to come back home.
Practise devotion in marraige/relationship. God, this is the person you have given me- God, how can I be devoted to this person? How can we build a castle together? How can we help each other? How can we grow spiritually together?- that should be the focus.
Disclaimer: God does not say stay in a toxic marraige. God says, don’t cheat. We should not be the reason for creation of bad karma.
Samajla? Nahi samajla? Marathit saangu?