Genesis 12:1- The Lord said to Abram, “Leave your country, your people and your father’s household and go to the land I will show you. I will make your name great, you will be blessed and you will be a blessing to others”.
Say if you’re someone who is spiritual, empathetic, sensitive, authentic in nature, then you’re a misfit in your dysfunctional, rigid and narcissistic family dynamic. Your family feels threatened by your ability to speak truth, challenge hypocrisy, refusal to tolerate injustice, refusal to comply to them trying to break your spirit with constant control and belittling.
Jesus says in Mark 6:4- “My prophets will be honoured everywhere except by their own family, relatives and hometown/country”. The difference in spiritual elevation between you and your toxic family dynamic is the reason it gets to (Many against 1). God didn’t choose you to fit in
1. JEALOUSY:
Your spiritual growth, wisdom, the light you carry, skill set triggers jealousy in people closest to you who refuse to acknowledge that the person they grew up with or the one they are familiar with, is more wise than them. Unprovoked, they feel triggered.
2. SCAPEGOAT:
The way animals were sacrificed by humans as an offering to God to release their own sins, you will be a living sacrifice for your entire family. Anyone does something wrong to you, and you defend yourself, collectively everyone still points fingers at you.
3. THE TRUTH YOU SPEAK:
The despise you because the truth you speak makes them see their own flaws which makes them uncomfortable. Instead of owning upto them, they project it on you.
4. YOU WILL BE LEFT OUT:
No matter how wise you speak, your family, will purposely try to cut you, keep you out of family conversations and social events. They rather pretend they are not listening to you to insult you.
5. THEY SULLY YOUR REPUTATION:
Because they have been secretly always jealous of you, instead of facing their dysfunction, behind your back they tarnish your reputation.
6. THEY DOWNPLAY YOUR ACCOMPLISHMENTS:
You may be the most outstanding performer, hard worker in your family but because they feel inferior to you in some way, they downplay everything you achieve.
7. DIFFICULT RELATIONSHIP WITH SIBLINGS:
Siblings treat you with the same disdain as rest of the family. Say you have a narcissist elder sibling jealous of you. She always speaks to you disrespectfully and you answer back in self defence. Your other siblings will join her and make you look as the trouble maker or someone mentally ill when you might be the most sensible person in your entire family unit.
8. UNCONSCIOUS PROJECTION:
Chosen ones are born in dsyfunctional toxic families who refuse to heal, handle their inner demons. In your light, they see their darkness so they unconsciously project their toxicity, insecurities, shortcomings, pain which others caused them upon you.
God eventually moves his chosen ones to a different land to protect their peace and prosper them.